I have two things that I feel insecure about in this relationship.
1) I'm worried if my boo is sterile/ impotent.
2) Cultural differences/ age difference.
Ps: there was no child in his previous marriage, though the wife died from ovarian cancer.
The issue is honestly as far as a life partner is concerned, I feel I can do better/ deserve more in the sense that I never thought I'll even consider marrying a widower, we all have our preferences as regards an ideal man, dreams and how we have pictured our lives to be.
So, how do I confirm the potency/ validity of my boo's sperm.
I have indirectly asked him before, and I remember he said there was no problem, just low volume of sperm!!
In my mind I was like hmm!!! God please I no want this kind problem..
And no!!! to those who'll tell me to try to get pregnant first.
To those who married an older spouse,How do you cope with the feeling of your first child been very young,say 12yrs and your hubby is already in his sixties......
I'm over analysing? Sometimes I feel I can get a man who is in his mid 30's / late 30's to date/marry But mom says life isn't always like that, you don't always get what you want.
And to those that will say, as long as you love him, bear in mind that sometimes love isn't just enough. Thanks.
Culled from StellaDimokoKorkus
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